Having a Village is a Major Flex: TikTok Reflections on Parental Support

In an era where communal living and extended family support feel like relics of the past, one TikTok video has sparked an essential conversation about the state of the "village" in parenting today. Meet Deja, known as @mrsdejasmith on TikTok. Deja’s heartfelt video has gone viral, shedding light on a truth that resonates deeply with many parents: having a village to help raise a child is no longer a given—it’s a privilege.

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The Viral Video That Hits Home

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Deja’s candid reflection opens with a realization that caught her off guard: she assumed friends and family would naturally step in to help and support her and her child. Instead, she found herself having to coax and even beg for engagement.

Since she posted the video on May 14, it has gained over 8,000 hearts and 475+ comments. Parents everywhere are sharing their own experiences, echoing the feelings of surprise, disappointment, and loneliness that Deja describes.

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Watch her viral video on TikTok.

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What Are Parents Saying?

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Moms Are Relating

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The overwhelming response from moms reveals a shared experience: many parents feel abandoned or let down by those they thought would form their village.

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Nostalgia for the Past

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Deja’s video sparked memories of childhoods where grandparents and extended family were ever-present. Many commenters lament how different things feel today, where support seems harder to come by.

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Building Your Own Village

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Moms are sharing creative ways to rebuild the village, including joining local parenting groups, connecting online, and forging friendships on social media. The message is clear: if the traditional village isn’t there, it’s okay to create your own.

A Changed World

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From geographic separation to busier lives, today’s culture makes communal parenting support more elusive. Commenters reflect on how much has shifted since previous generations, highlighting the unique challenges modern parents face.

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It’s Time to Get the Village Villaging Again

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Deja’s video isn’t just a lament—it’s a call to action. Her words resonate because they shine a light on an unspoken truth: many of us stepped into parenthood expecting a village, only to find ourselves navigating the journey alone. But as this conversation grows, so does the realization that we have the power to redefine what support looks like.

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How Can We Rebuild the Village?

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• Find Your Tribe: Whether it’s through local mom groups, neighborhood meetups, or online communities, take steps to connect with parents who understand your journey.
• Redefine Family Support: If family members can’t physically be there, explore ways they can still contribute emotionally or remotely.
• Support Others: Be the village you want to see. Offer help, share resources, and lend an ear to other parents.

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Villie’s Take: Together, We Can Make a Difference

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At Villie, we believe no parent should have to go it alone. That’s why we’re passionate about fostering connections, building communities, and supporting every step of your parenting journey.

So, let’s keep this conversation going. Let’s share more, help more, and ensure every parent has the support they need. Because together, we can get the village villaging again. ❤️

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Build Your Village with a Villie Baby Page

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Ready to get your village in action? A Villie Baby Page is the perfect tool to rally your support network and keep everyone connected. With Villie, you can make it easy for family, friends, and loved ones to engage with your parenting journey while staying informed and involved—all in one secure space.

Here’s how a Villie Baby Page helps your village thrive:

• Private and Secure: Your page is password-protected, so only the people you choose can access it.
• Educational for Your Village: Share updates, milestones, and resources to help your loved ones understand how they can best support you and your baby.
• Centralized Communication: No more repeating updates—everyone stays informed through one convenient hub.
• Milestone Sharing: Celebrate every “first” with your village, from baby’s first smile to their first steps.
• Wishlists and Needs: Let your support system know exactly what you need, from baby gear to emotional support.

With a Villie Baby Page, you’re not just sharing your parenting journey—you’re creating a connected, empowered village. Let’s get your community supporting, celebrating, and villaging like never before! 💕

Create Your Baby Page Today! 🌟

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