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Third Trimester

My Hypnobirthing Journey and Book Suggestions

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Kendall Mensah

The hypnobirthing techniques I had practiced during pregnancy, along with the support of my doula, sister, and partner played a significant role in enabling me to approach the entire process with calmness and positivity.

I recently welcomed my newborn into the world, and I can confidently say that the hypnobirthing method made all the difference. Without it, I'm not sure how I would have managed to stay present, calm, and experienced such a positive birth experience. My labor was quite lengthy, starting at a birthing center and eventually transitioning to the hospital. Despite the challenges, both my baby and I remained healthy and calm throughout the process. From my water breaking on Sunday at 9pm to the arrival of my baby on Tuesday at 3pm, I embraced the birthing journey as a beautiful and transformative experience. The hypnobirthing techniques I had practiced during pregnancy, along with the support of my doula, sister, and partner played a significant role in enabling me to approach the entire process with calmness and positivity.

What is Hypnobirthing?

Everyone in my family was always asking what Hypnobirthing was. Basically, Hypnobirthing is a method that combines relaxation techniques, self-hypnosis, visualization, and positive affirmations, and it can be applied to any type of birth. Contrary to popular belief, hypnobirthing does not involve being hypnotized or losing control. Instead, it focuses on creating a deep state of relaxation while maintaining awareness and actively participating in the birthing process.

Practice is Everything

When it came to my hypnobirthing journey, I discovered that the power lies in consistent practice. The meditations, course, and books I embraced were invaluable, but the true magic happened when I committed to daily practice. Hypnobirthing, much like yoga or meditation, becomes more effective the more you engage with it. You can gather all the knowledge from courses and books, but the real transformation happens when you put it into action. It's like building a muscle; the more you work it, the stronger it becomes. So, if you're considering hypnobirthing, remember that it requires dedication and starting early in your pregnancy is key. The rewards are remarkable, and you'll be amazed at the inner strength and calmness you can cultivate for your birthing experience.

Know How You Learn

Finding the right resources that align with your learning style is key. With so many options available, you have the freedom to choose what works best for you. Whether it's watching YouTube videos, attending in-person or online courses, reading books, or hiring a certified hypnobirthing doula. It's important to explore and find the methods that resonate best with you.

Personally, I found that reading was the most effective way for me to learn and absorb the principles of hypnobirthing. I delved into books, took an online course, and even enlisted the support of a doula who specialized in hypnobirthing. Each of these resources contributed to my understanding and practice of hypnobirthing, allowing me to approach my birthing experience with confidence and a sense of inner calm.

Remember, everyone's learning style is unique, so don't be afraid to explore different avenues and tailor your hypnobirthing journey to suit your preferences. The more you engage with the method in a way that resonates with you, the more empowered and prepared you'll feel as you embark on your own hypnobirthing experience

During my hypnobirthing journey, I found several resources that were instrumental in my preparation and practice. Here are some of the resources that made a significant impact:

Must-Read Books

"Hypnobirthing: The Mongan Method" by Marie Mongan: This book provided a comprehensive introduction to hypnobirthing, explaining the philosophy and techniques in detail. https://a.co/d/hsc0bhM

"Mindful Hypnobirthing: Hypnosis and Mindfulness Techniques for a Calm and Confident Birth" by Sophie Fletcher: This book combined hypnobirthing with mindfulness practices, offering a holistic approach to birthing.

Hypnobirthing: Practical Ways to Make Your Birth Better

Ina May's Guide to Childbirth, Give Birth Like a Feminist, Hypnobirthing, Expecting Better 4 Books Collection Set

Ina May's Guide to Childbirth "Updated With New Material"

Ina May's Guide to Breastfeeding

Other Birthing Resources for Hypnobirthing

I also enrolled in the Birthbox online course that provided step-by-step guidance and practical exercises to develop my hypnobirthing skills. The course allowed me to learn at my own pace and revisit the material whenever needed. This one is fast and requires that you do your own more in depth research but I loved her meditations and read so many books that her course was just the highlight I needed. This course is like a light version of most online courses and if you do learn better with a virtual instructor or in person I recommend you look into taking those more in depth courses.

I also hired a doula who specialized in hypnobirthing. She provided personalized support, guided me through various techniques, and offered reassurance throughout my birthing journey. She also offers in person and online courses so check her out here if your prefer the more one on one approach either in person or online. If you are in the South Florida area definitely hit her up, she’s the absolute best!

You Got This!

These resources, combined with consistent practice and self-discipline, empowered me to approach childbirth with confidence and a sense of calm. I would love to learn more about the resources that have helped you in your hypnobirthing journey as well. Feel free to send us a direct message on Instagram @villiefamily, and we'll include your suggestions in our upcoming blog. Let's continue to support and inspire each other on this incredible journey!

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